I'm relistening to a sermon I heard about 3 years ago. It's Mark Driscoll talking about masculinity. I turned to this again because, as a church planter in a college town, I'm getting increasingly frustrated at young men, even those with wives or girlfriends, that, first, can't lead themselves beyond their pillow, and second, can't lead their lovely ladies to church on Sunday. I'm about to lose my temper about this, so, if this applies to you, a) make some changes, or b) avoid me for the next week or two. Listen to this and reconsider your ways. It convicted me. It should you.